Attention
Attention
I do not care who you are, or who you think you are, but being in a room full of strangers can be a bit intimidating. However, what I come to understand that if you are self-assured, and willing to be open minded, your confidence will radiate and will evoke others to want to be around you.
One of the sexiest traits I find in a male is intelligence. I am in awe anytime one can hold their own in a diverse conversation, whether it is religion, politics, economics, or healthy living. My friend sent me this picture, and she asked what I thought? I simply said, “Strong, powerful, confident, diverse people, holding their own”. She then asked if I was one of the women in the picture, who would I first gravitate too and why? I told her I like the strong silent type. Based on assumption alone, the gentlemen in the purple shirt would be the first person I would gravitate to. It also helps that he is wearing my favorite color.
We all have a type. We are reminded every day of how our light shines and attracts others. What we must be mindful of is to go beyond the surface. Look deep inside, and determine if the shell supports the core. At the core is where you find worth. At the core is where you find value. At the core is where you will determine capability. You see there is the saying, “I am more than just my hair.” I am beautiful inside and out. You determine this to be true not just by appearance, but by what are articulated via actions and words.
Let me know, what grabs your attention…..
Tactful Talk Tuesday with Taneka