Re: Taneka
You didn't leave your name so I will just refer to you as ma'am.You are 100% correct that you cannot force a relationship between a man and his child.
My points are not directed towards a forceful relationship. My points are towards thinking, engaging and acting. If you know you have done all you can, then just Stand. However, if you know you used vengeance to keep children away from their other half of family, then it's time to grow and let go the hurt and the pain. Fathers, as I encouraged before, fight for your rights to be a part of your kids life. Mothers do what you can to bridge the gap, and know that your best is Good enough.
Coparent, if and when you can. We know certain circumstances prevent such, and that is not what I am focusing on.
Tactful Talk with Taneka