Top Ten Reasons Why Women will RUN in the early stages of a new relationship!
It’s Tea Time. Today’s Topic Top Ten reasons why women will RUN in the early stages of a new relationship!
Today we are going to help the men. Lord knows that they need it. Men have you ever met a woman, talked to her on the phone, took her out on a date, and the next thing you know she stopped answering your calls. You wondered what went wrong. She gave you a nice hug, asked if you were going to call her again, laughed at some of your worst jokes, and now she is MIA! Here are some of the reasons why she has suddenly become the invisible women.
10. CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD: Men, women love gentlemen. We want you to open doors for us. Please help us with our coats. No woman want to stand looking like she is caught up in the wind trying to put her coat on, while you wonder if the Miami Heat is winning. I personally will hand my coat back to a guy if he hands it to me to put on by myself. I will stand at the door until you figure out how to open it. Once a guy thought that the restaurant was closed because I refused to open the door for myself.
9. MAMA’S BOY: I am not saying do not help your mother. But if she is calling you, needing something 24/7, and each time you go running, any woman in her right mind is going to wonder, how she is going to fit in between you and your mother. If you cannot go on a date for a few hours without Mama calling for her dinner, and seeing what time you will be done, you are a Mama’s boy! Yeah I said it. If you are offend by the revelation, then you are in denial about it.
8. SHOWING HER OFF TOO EARLY: Not only have you told all of your boys how fine she is, you have invited them to come check her out the next time that you see her. Your friends just happen to be at the same restaurant? She is wondering what kind of new fool are you? You have introduced her as your woman; she is correcting you behind your back, and telling them that you are just friends. First chance she gets, she is heading for the hills, and you will never hear from her again.
7. LETTING BABY MAMA CONTROL YOU: You don’t have a day where Monqeusha is not calling screaming at you to come pick up little Johnny. You pay child support, buy extra stuff, and help her out with her other bills. That’s great, but she wants you to drop everything that you are doing, and pick up your son everyday. “He’s acting bad, come get him.” “He said he wanted McDonald’s, come take him.” “He won’t be quiet, come tell him to shut up.” The list goes on and on…..Baby mama has your day planned out for you every day, you just didn’t know it! When a woman sees this behavior she is literally planning on how to avoid your calls permanently. You will be going straight to voice mail. Too much drama!!!!
6. BAD LISTENER: She has told you several times that she can’t go out on Thursdays. She even told you why, yet you continue to call and ask her to do something on that day. This says I don’t care, this is going my way, or I don’t pay attention when you talk so can we go out on Thursday?
5. CHEAP: Men we don’t mind so much going Dutch in the early stages of a relationship, but we should not be splitting a $10.00 bill for coffee. If you are gun ho on making sure she gives down to the change, that’s the last cup of coffee that you going to have with her. If you can’t pick up the small tab of coffee, maybe you should not be dating in the first place. If you want to split a dinner of six wings and a biscuit, stay home and talk on the phone. This relationship will be short lived anyway!
4. LYING: You said that you were an engineer, a maintenance engineer, and (fancy way of saying janitor), in some case you don’t have a real job at all. That’s another issue. Why lie???? It really does not make a difference, but don’t lie. Once we find out that you are capable of lying, we question everything that you say. When we know that someone lies, we just don’t trust anything they do or say. If we can’t trust you what’s the point in going any further.
3. NOT TAKING CARE OF YOUR KIDS/BAD MOUTHING YOUR EX: Men if you have kids, they are your responsibility. When you don’t take care of them it tells a woman that you are irresponsible period. Not only will you not take of what should be one of the most important things in your life, how on earth will you take care of her and the kids you might have together. Please don’t bad mouth your ex; I’m sure she was not a witch when you were sleeping with her. This is a snap shot of how you will treat your current woman, should the two of you not work out. Any signs of this behavior on the first date and she is thinking, “The waiter is kind of cute!”
2. TALKING ABOUT SEX TOO SOON/TRYING TO GET INTO HER HOUSE: Not after too many phone calls, you are asking her about her favorite position. Then on the very first date, you are already asking her to cook for you at her house. A woman in her right mind is wondering if you are too cheap to take her out, and if you are trying to get into her house to have sex with her. Leave the sex talk off. A real woman is done falling for the okey doke! She been there, done that, and now she don’t like you!!!!
1. NO SWAG/BAD DRESSER: Swag is not just about how you look, but it’s also about confidence. Your confidence is so low; you have talked her out of going out with you! She was excited when she first met you, but you have shared how bad you've allowed someone else to treat you, and that has messed up your confidence in yourself. You have such low self-esteem, that she is running. You dress so bad, she is wondering who buys your clothes. Women love a strong confident well dressed man! We like a man who knows who he is and whose he is! Have some faith in yourself, and believe that you are who God says that you are. That little bit goes far with women.
Well I’m done with my Tea, and whooooo it’s been a long tea time! Men I hope that I didn’t offend you, but the women have spoken. Hope you enjoyed your tea. I had Lemon Ginger it’s good for the digestive system, and some of you all needed that to take the spoonfuls of this blog! God bless!